Memoirs of a Lemming

September 21, 2007

Lucky

Filed under: Europe, Travel — Reky @ 8:33 am

So, in an effort to play catch up, here is a Reader’s Digest version of where I went and what I saw, from Petra (Jordan) to flying back to the States:

As you may know by now from the pictures, I passed on the second day at Petra and joined the guys on our bus ride to Anman in the morning. The deciding factor was that we saw a lot in one day, and that I would have to walk the same path for apx 3 km back before there would be a fork in the road that would lead me to something new. Plus it was just nice to have the company. We rode the 3 hour bus ride first thing in the morning, and learned something about the local long distance bus system. When in Jordan, always plan to take the early long distance buses, as the later ones may never happen. The long distance buses are of the mini bus variety, and they do not leave the station until they are at least half full, or in the case of the early morning ones, until they are fully occupied. Therefore buses anytime after noon, are questionable, as it is not known if there is the demand to fill them even to 50 percent. So with that, after saying bye to Hiro, who joined an American couple en-route to Israel, we hired a driver for a few hours to drive us to the Dead Sea (1-hour each way, and 1 hour to float), for only 33 JD total. The Dead Sea, was a great surprise, as you literally float due to its salinity, but be careful not to get any in your eyes, or have any fresh cuts or scratches, as you will definitely feel it. I had some scratches from my day at Petra, and really was not aware of it, until The Dead Sea notified me of it. The next day I caught my flight back to Istanbul via Royal Jordanian, a really nice carrier. The plane was small, as it was only a 2 hour flight, but nice wide leather seats, almost felt like business class, plus if you fly with them, they have a transfer office in the city that can shuttle you to the Airport for only 2 JD, in case you ever visit Jordan, which I highly recommend, after visiting Egypt.

Back in Istanbul, I met up with my local buddies, the gang at SpeedTravel: Ahmet, Bulnet, John, Onur, and a couple others. For the next couple days, I just hungout at their shop, played some backgammon, and took in a couple sites. Coincidently, on my last night there, Gemma was returning from her tour through Turkey, so we all went to Onur’s bar, Sha, for some dancing, and again plenty of soda for me. During those couple days, I got a chance to speak to many fellow backpackers and with help from some of the gang, define a loose itinerary for my trek through Turkey. The goal was to spend the next three weeks in the last (Southeast) country in Europe, before I made my transition to another continent, but technically, most of Turkey is on the Asia continental plate, but you catch my drift (get the pun, okay I know, dorky engineer). So after another late night with the gang, I hopped on a bus-about type tour bus early in the morning headed for Gallipoli. During World War I, the British Allied forces tried to take over portions of Turkey due to its geographical and logistical advantages in its fight against Russia, namely access via its water ways. What resulted was, that hundreds of thousands of Australian and New Zealand forces were sent in (along with British, French and India) by the Allied Forces, to fight against the Turks. The Allies severely underestimated the fight, and had miscalculated that the fight would last less than two weeks. The fighting, of course, continued much longer, with almost 500,000 injured from both sides (almost 50-50), and resulted with the Turks defending their land. The intriguing part is that, during this fight, the Turks developed a strong bond with the Australian and New Zealand troops, such that there is a term: ANZAC (Australian and New Zealand Armed Corps). They say, it is because the ANZAC was not there, because they wanted to, but because they were made to by the British Allied Forces, much like the Turks were made to defend their land, additionally there are stories where these two sides, fought from fox holes/trenches, not more than 30m from each other, where they heard the suffering that each side was enduring. During that time, they also called temporary truces, to re-claim the dead and injured. In sum, it was an interesting tour to participate in, since I was oblivious to this history, and all those around me were Ozzies and Kiwis (New Zealanders), led by a Turk. At one time, the tour leader, almost shed a tear, and told everybody that he felt like they were family, part of his family, because of his close connection to the war (his grandfather died at Gallipoli), and that as an ANZAC he wanted everybody to be quiet and be one with the land and soak in the soil that their ancestors walked and fought on. So after taking a day of taking some subtle American bashing, I politely asked him: What I should do? We spent the night in Cannakkale, where I think I was attacked by a swarm of mosquitoes, probably at the request of Captain Ali, our tour guide.

The next day we headed for Selcuk, where I would hop off the bus, and go the rest solo. Along the way, we did a tour of the historical cities of Troy and Bergama (aka Pergamon). Everybody knows Troy, because of the Trojan horse, the interesting story is that the city was re-built many times, on its same location, as many as nine times. The other interesting fact, is that the fighting began over a woman, and continued to last for over ten years. Bergama, with its columns, friezes and a large amphitheatre, was of the Roman Empire variety of ancient cities. I had actually visited the Pergamon Museum in Berlin, which contained much more of the in-tact sculptures than at the site itself. The best story, I heard on our tour was the story of how applauses came about, at the end of a play or stage event. The king would host a celebration each year, and during that week, a member from each family would attend the event in the evening at the Amphitheatre. One year, the king had been much too busy the week leading up to the celebrations, so during the first night at the amphitheatre, he few asleep during the show. The problem is that: the people were not allowed to leave, until the king had. So the people sat, all night until the morning, when the king awoke. The next night, the king fell asleep again, and so the people waited till sunrise. On the third night, the people conspired, and as the show ended, they saw that the king was again fast asleep, and they erupted in applause not to compliment the actors on a job well done, but to wake up the king.

I spent the next couple days in Selcuk, visiting Ephesus (another ancient City, but one of the more well preserved ones), Ephesus Museum, Temple of Artemis (one of the original Seven Wonders of the World, but now nothing more than a few columns and pieces of foundations), and the Basilica of St John (who accompanied the Virgin Mary after Jesus’ death). The Church of the Virgin Mary is also next door, which you can see from St John’s, so I passed on actually going to the front door.

Russ (my roommate from Egypt) and I joined back up and decided to travel together for a day, and head to Fethiye, with a detour to Pamakkula (one of the Natural Seven Wonders of the World) to see the famous terraced calcium pools. Not sure what I should say or tell you, as this is where you feel bad for what we have done to the planet. I am probably one of the least tree hugger types, that we all know, but this place looked nothing the pictures that brought me here. The only place that I found, which I have photos of, with the terraced calcium pools, require the use of pumped in water. Its still on the list for places to see, when you are in the neighborhood, but I heard of people staying here multiple days before to see the sunset and/or rise, but now reduced to a half day trip. The night ended, after our 5 hour bus ride to Fethiye, a small Mediterranean Sea front town, where many come to catch on for a boat cruise (Blue Cruise) to Olympia. Russ had booked the Blue Cruise (so named for its beautiful blue waters along the entire route), but in the reverse direction. Most take the 3-day cruise from Fethiye to Olympia, but since this was now peak season, all the cruises were supposedly booked, so the only one he could catch on was a few days later, leaving from Olympia. This is when my lucky streak continued; at this point everybody kept telling me to book the Blue Cruise. But to be honest, I could not be bothered with booking a cruise, weeks or even days out, knowing that I may get antsy, as I was already flying through a good portion of Turkey and was reducing my three weeks to just over two. I figured, if and when I got to Fethiye and I was in the mood for the cruise I would just see if there was any last minute vacancy, if not, no worries, then off to Olympia by bus.

The next morning, Russ and I wished each other farewell again (actually for the third time, as we had met up for an afternoon back in Istanbul), and I stopped by one of the operators for the Blue Cruise. And as luck would have it, they had one spot open for the next day, and so I took it and now had a firm itinerary for the net few days. The cruise ended up being one my favorite time and memories of Turkey. The daily routine was swimming in the morning, eat breakfast, chill/hang, swim before noon, eat lunch, chill/hang, swim some more, dinner, then one last swim before dark. At night the boat mates just hungout like we did all day: play backgammon, cards, tell stories, read… it was basically like summer camp, without all the required arts and crafts. The people I met on the boat, were great, they help me re-energize and restore my excitement to meet new people. For some reason, just before the cruise, I was feeling a bit of a lull, I was not in the mood to talk and meet people as much, and was fine going at it alone for most of the day. Having Russ around a bit helped, as you could be alone by not talking, but still not be completely along, this is where I referenced earlier that I started to feel home sick. But, the boat mates were so great, that you really couldn’t help but interact and have a good time, although our boat did break into two camps. Half of the boat already knew each other, and had some history together, which for some reason, prevented some of them from wanting to interact with the rest of us. But in the end, we all had a great time, and I really enjoyed the company and getting to know our half of the boat: Tamara, Sean, Jez, Mary, Georgina, Alessia, Sophie and Pamela. They were so great, that many of us hungout for another day in Olympia, and I even ran into Tamara and Sean at Cappadocia and again at Istanbul. One of my favorite past time on the cruise was sleeping under the stars. I remember camping as a kid, looking up into the stars, and dreaming until you fell asleep. Not since that time, have I seen a sky filled with so many stars, honestly, there were probably more stars out above that boat, then I had ever seen in my life, ever! Its as if you had a black piece of paper, and with a hand full of salt, sprinkle it all over the paper, now do the same with the other handful of salt. Each night, when we finally decided to call it in, we calmed our spot outside on the boat, and while some passed out from the days labours activities of: swimming and eating, I tried to stay up as long as I could to count the falling stars. As I recall, I counted about a dozen on our last night, but that was no where close to Mary and Jez’s twenty plus.

Once back on shore, I spent a night in Olympia, in the “treehouse” which is what all the hostels call themselves. But to quote a fellow backpacker, “Yeah, I guess they are, sort of like a house, that are made from trees.” The best way to describe Olympia, is: a place in the middle of no where, with nothing much to do, and try to live like a hippie. It is actually a good place to get re-adjusted back to life on land after the three days on the boat. Then I caught an overnight bus for Cappadocia, the land of strange but oddly beautiful, almost mystical, land cone formations. I don’t need to go into detail, as it’s a must for anyone doing a pro-longed tour of Turkey, and everybody pretty much does the same tours. The cutest thing did happen on my bus ride into Cappadocia, that is where I met Malaka, a nine year old girl, traveling with her mom and sister to Cappadocia, to see her aunt. They sat in the seats in front of me, and I swear, it seemed as if she had never seen an Asian before. When she first got on the bus, she did a double take and subtlety pointed at me to her mom. Her mom whispered something in her ear, probably don’t stare or point, but I just waved back and gave her a smile. She then literally jumped with excitement and told her mom what I had done, and her mom just looked back and gave me a smile as well. For a good portion of the trip, at least for the time that I was awake, we just played hide and seek between the gaps in the chairs, which made the trip go by faster.

My luck continued for my trip from Cappadocia to Istanbul, apparently bus tickets are much harder to get when leaving Cappadocia. I just figured there would be as many leaving as coming in, and can’t be bothered with making reservations. My plan, was to spend two full days in Cappadocia, but only one night, and just the rough it on the overnight buses. As I was walking through town after my first full day in Cappadocia, I decided to stop by the bus office to inquire about the buses leaving tomorrow night, as I always intended to buy the ticket the day of. The first bus office, said that they were sold out for the next couple days, and could have something confirmed in a few days, or stay on standby for the next couple days. Shocked by this, I went to the other bus companies, all located next door to each other. They all said the same, and explained that it’s the peak season, and that they are fully booked, and trying to get more buses in. But, then the last one said, that they had nothing unless I was a party of one, Bingo! He said, that he had literately turned away forty people in the last few hours, as they were always groups of two or more, and he had only the one ticket for the next couple of days, and it was for tomorrow night’s bus, perfect!

Having covered so much ground the last couple months, I decided that it wasn’t a big deal to cover some more, and instead of looking for a place that I liked, I decided to change it up and go to place that I knew I already liked. At this point I had just short of a week before my flight from Istanbul to Dusseldorf, Germany, where I had a two day layover, before heading back for the States. So after arriving in Istanbul early in the morning, I dropped my bags, and headed to the train station and bought a ticket for Belgrad, Serbia, a 24 hour train leaving that night. After arriving back in Belgrade, and receiving a heart warm welcome from my friends: Srdjan, Dragana, and Nevena, I basically hungout for the next four/five days. This time I took in some more of the sites, with a visit to the Tesla Museum, and met more great fellow backpackers at the hostel. The hot and strange news throughout the city, was an incident at the zoo. Apparently, I had just missed Beer-fest, an annual 3-4 day festival/event, where the beer companies have booths and host musical acts, it’s suppose to be the party of the year. Of course, I didn’t feel too bad to have missed it, water or soda pop may have been hard to come by. Anyways, word around town was that some older teenagers, got drunk, and one of them, somehow fell into the black bear pit in the middle of the night. On the front page of the newspaper the next night, was a picture of the bear mauling this kid. Luckily I wasn’t there to see the paper, but it was the talk of the town, and how the newspaper was in trouble for including the picture. The attendance at the zoo skyrocketed the following week, and yours truly participated. I know, bad me, but I had heard so much about the zoo now, and honestly, I was running out of things to do in Belgrade, during the day.

Instead of catching a 24-hour train back to Istanbul, only to catch a flight to Germany, I decided to take a bus to Munich, for a couple days of sight seeing, then a train to Cologne, for another day of sight seeing, then finally to Dusseldorf to catch my flight home. In Munich, I joined a walking tour, which I ditched mid-stream, visited: the Art Museum, Modern Art Museum, Duetch Museum (think engineering and technology museum, great for kids young and old who are fascinated by science, technological advancements, and evolution of flight, motors/engines, print press, glass…), and the huge public park, which included a surf wave, and a portion of the park where people sun bathe, and clothing is unfortunately is optional. The one thing that I missed out on, that I wish, I knew about is, that on Monday nights the City hosts: Night Rollerblading through the City, where they have the right of way. This particular Monday was the last one for the year, as it only takes place during the Summer, so everybody was there, literally there was thousands and thousands of them, we had to stand on the street corner for a along while, before the cops finally set a break in the rollerbladers’ path, so that the pedestrians and cars could finally pass. In Cologne everybody does the Dom Church, similar to the Gothic style as St Vitus in Prague, but much bigger. Similar to St Vitus, you can climb the steps to the top, but this one of course required more steps, supposedly 509 steps to the top. I also visited the Chocolate Museum, which to me was more like a big ad for chocolate, but you had to pay to see the message, definitely something you can pass on.

And that catches you up (as best as I could) to my trip back home, and the completion of my first three months of travel. I hope that you have enjoyed accompanying me on my trip, thus far. The many words of encouragement and support of the blog and travel have meant a lot, as I am writing this blog for many reasons. One, its something that helps me record this trip, in a much different way than a private journal, where you might get lazy and just jot done a few lines and hope that you remember what you saw and felt. Knowing that others will read it, has challenged me to keep it as interesting as possible, but at the same time keep it personal, by injecting my thoughts and weird sense of humor at times, in essence my fingerprint. Additionally my objective has not been to replicate what The Lonely Planet and Rick Steve’s does so much better, but rather to share with you about the places I have visited, as I have learned that it is much more important to know the author (and what they enjoy and why) as much as it is to know the words, as someone may rave about a particular place, but if you don’t enjoy the same environments, your outlook may be completely different.

I have chosen the title of this entry as “lucky”, not only because of my fortune with getting onto the Blue Cruise and the bus out of Cappadocia, but also for how I feel in general, for: the places I have seen and experienced, the people I have met, the friends I have made, the opportunity to take this trip, for seriously everything.

Hope all is well.

September 17, 2007

The Glass is Truely Half Full

Filed under: Uncategorized — Reky @ 6:14 am

During the last few days, I have played around with various ideas for the next (this) blog entry, as I am now more than a month behind real time. The fact is, I need to find a way to catch up, as I know that I may never be able to (catch up), just refer to my time in Russia, Belarus, Warsaw, Berlin, Krakow and Budapest, and all the stories that I still have not blogged, about the places I saw, and great people I met and traveled with. Add to that, the fact that I am now in China and getting access to the blog site via a public portal has been near impossible, instead I have to hop on someone’s laptop with a wireless connection. Then the unexpected happened, yesterday, that made me stop writing my notes/drafts, at least for now.

But, first a little, background: I arrived in Beijing, just over a week ago, and was met at the airport, by my friend from home, James, who moved here two months ago. Its weird, but, James, me and another one of our mutual acquantiances are all in China at this time, taking a break from our professional lives, but all here for very different reasons. I won’t venture to guess all their reasons, as it was hard enough to express mine, but the manner in which we are using our time explains it enough. James’ intention was always to live in Beijing for a year, more importantly the year before the 2008 Summer Olympics, so that he can see first hand the transformation that the city and its people are experiencing, as it becomes the focus of the World’s media, next summer. I am happy to report that James, has now set up a great base camp in Beijing, with an apartment and a great network of friends. Our mutual acquantiance has been on the road for well over the year, and has spent the bulk of his time in Asia, specifically: India, Southeast Asia and western China, staying clear of the toursy path, and more on the dirt roads. Then there is me, moving along with the rest of the lemmings.

Beijing, with the exception of the trip home, would be the first city that I would visit as part of this trip, that I had already been before. As you may recall, per my initial blog, I had many fond/great memories of my previous trip to China, and it was probably that trip that planted the seed for developing my love of traveling. So needless to say, I was excited about seeing my old friend, Beijing. Within the first few hours, and days that followed, I quickly realized that the City has grown and changed in more ways than I could imagine. The landscape of the City even beyond the inner Ring Roads were now covered with tall office, commercial and residential complexes; gone were the days where the bicycles outnumbered the cars, rather the ratio was much more heavily weighed in favor of the automobiles; the tight alleys of the hutongs were now made even tighter by the parked cars along one side; and English signs are scattered consistently throughout the center of town. I could actually deal with all this, but what was the most surprising, was: the changes that I noticed with the people. To me, it seemed as if some of their innocence that I previously experienced was lost. The locals, were now use to the sight of foreigners in the subway lines, and had little patience with someone struggling with Mandarin, so they would just re-ask in English in some instances. I guess, in my own selfish way, I did not feel the same love from them, that I once felt of being that long lost cousin that returned home for a brief visit. In general, the locals had adapted to 21st century, and its culture along with its cynicism, much quicker than I could have ever imagined. So after doing the minimal toursy requirements of another visit to the Great Wall, The Forbidden City, The Temple of Heaven, watching an acrobat show, along with an overnight trip to Chengde, I decided to call it quits with the sightseeing and just hangout with James and some of his friends for a couple days, before I left for Shanghai.

So here, is where the unexpected happened: Anybody who knows me, knows how much I love kids. Like others I have always given thought of helping more in the community, but like many others, there is always some reason or excuse that makes it impractical. But the thought of combining both, and visiting/helping at an orphanage, has always scared me. I guess the best way to explain it, is: it’s the same reason that a kid hides under the covers when they are scared. It doesn’t make sense, that thin sheet of cloth won’t protect you from that monster under the bed or in the closet, but it sure does make you feel a whole lot better. So for me, its always been the fear of looking into a kid’s eyes and seeing the pain, and uncertainty of what the future may hold. Or maybe, it’s the fear of becoming attached and not wanting to disappoint someone who has been disappointed by others before, or maybe its both, and the fact, that as my friends always say: you think too much. Whatever the reason, it brought me to a crossroad in China. James along with many of his new ex-patriot friends take turns visiting a local orphanage to teach a small lesson plan and more importantly just to play with the kids. When offered this opportunity, I knew it was the right thing to do.

We spent only a few hours there, but the impact will hopefully last a lifetime. Upon arrival and seeing the playground full of kids, I was initially sad, wondering what events brought them here, and where will they go. But, that immediately disappeared the minute you got to interact with them, and they smiled from ear to ear, knowing that we were all there to spend time with them. I could have not been more wrong, as these kids made you forget about everything else, literally in the world, and all you could do is smile as well, as you just made them do the same. They treated you as long lost friends, as many would grab you by the hand, and give you a tour of their home, with stops at their desk in the classroom, the seat they sit at for lunch and dinner, and the sink they used to wash up. The kids were truly amazing, one even gave up his seat so that I could sit in his for lunch, when I declined he would not sit and refused to take no for an answer, then another kid brought me lunch, while another stole my bowl when I was finished, so that he could wash it, as you are required to wash your own. I know that those few hours, will remain some of my fondest memories, well after this trip is over, my hope is that I don’t forget how wrong I was and that I promise to do more when I return home.

The intent of sharing this experience, was not to show that I did a good deed, as the kids did a much better deed for me, as I will be forgotten much sooner, if not already by them, but they will not with me. But rather it is, to show how things are put in perspective so quickly and easily: these kids who have so little, gave me so much. I often consider myself a “glass is half full” type of person, but here I was worried about all the reasons, that I mentioned above, in essence being half empty, but the kids showed me, stopping thinking, stop worrying, lets just smile and play, don’t worry about leaving when you haven’t left yet. They are truly the “glass is half full,” I only hope that at some point I put a smile on their face nearly as wide as the smile they put in my heart. So as my friends, I ask each one of you to please do something truly special sometime soon, as it probably will do more for you than the persons you are helping. Can someone remind me, what I was worried about before?

September 14, 2007

Pictures of Scandinavia

Filed under: Uncategorized — Reky @ 9:55 am

September 6, 2007

Three Months and Heaps of Pictures

Filed under: Uncategorized — Reky @ 10:27 am

As promised, I have uploaded some of the more than 2500 pictures I have taken since the start of this trip, which by the way is three months today. Don’t worry, I have not included all, but only the top 25% or so, which hopefully includes some of the places and people that I have mentioned in my blog. I will continue to upload pictures on the Flickr link to the right and include more in the caption, whereas the slideshow links, will include minimal captions.

It has been an interesting excercise to upload the pictures, as I had a chance to appreciate them myself, often with a smile while thinking back at the time I took the picture, of the places I have been and the great people that I have met. With three months behind me, and some what behind schedule, I am on a plane (tonight, just past midnight) headed for Beijing, China, to start the second leg of my trip.

After Jordan, I returned to Turkey, and spent a couple weeks traveling counter-clockwise along the Mediterranean coast, which I will write about later. During that trip, I started to feel a bit home-sick, not that I wanted to be home, but rather wanted to just settle down for a time, without having to plan or obligated to take in the sites. Thats when I decided to take a slight detour, actually I thought of doing it for awhile before. For more than a handful of years, some of my closest friends and I, on Labor Day weekend travel to the “exotic” city of Laughlin, Nevada. With most of them: growing up, moving away, getting married, and having kids, in some cases this is the only time of the year that I get to see them, and it is definately the only time that we are all together in one place. While traveling, I have truely met many great and awesome people, but what it makes you appreciate are the great friends that you already have. On the road you meet and connect with some great people, but that is aways followed with goodbyes and sincere promises to stay in touch, but few rarely do, as there are more places to see and great people to meet at the next destination. So, since it was time to move to a different continent anyways, I decided to take a slight detour and return home for a week, to participate in our annual Labor Day tradition.

Now, with my stomach full of: In-n-Out, chicken soft tacos, Gatorade, and a nice filet steak, I am refreshed to start my Asia leg. The trip home included, many highs and one notable low, but more importantly has provided me the oppurtunity to answer some questions, and once again to leave with an open mind and an open heart. So, with that I am off to the otherside of the world. Hope all is well.

Prague Pictures:

http://www.kodakgallery.com/I.jsp?c=78ky293.8xaf3bbr&x=0&y=l4vffu

Karlov Vary and Locket Pictures:

http://www.kodakgallery.com/I.jsp?c=78ky293.5rnphaav&x=0&y=-ddxw6j

Cesky Krumlov Pictures:

http://www.kodakgallery.com/I.jsp?c=78ky293.4jk6bl2f&x=0&y=6y6e5t

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