October 2007


For some reason, I have always felt gifted when I travel abroad, at least when it comes to weather. There are numerous times, that I was en-route to a distant land, and the weather forecast called for rain or snow, basically unenjoyable weather, for me to only find a nice sunny day, upon arrival. The streak continued when I arrived in Beijing and was told that I was very lucky to arrive the day I did, as just days before had unbearable heat and humidity. Of course, to be funny, I replied that I had brought this weather from Sunny Southern California, and expected to bring it with me, where ever I went, as for this trip and this year: I am officially skipping winter. That is when Karma hit, and brought the monsoon to Shanghai, just a day after I arrived. Well, so much for another streak. But to be honest, I have been quite lucky with the weather till now. I have always preferred the heat to the cold, the dry to the wet, and during my travels through Europe, I can only remember a couple wet days, one of which was very wet, as the group walked through the streets of Berlin, which I guess was the first official day that my power over the weather failed me :)

So, after waiting out the monsoon in Shanghai, I left in hopes of finding a place to hide out before the start of National week, where basically the whole country (remember there are over 1.3 billion people) is on vacation and traveling between October 1st through 7th. With just one week before the holiday, I took an overnight train to Huangshan Shi/Tunxi and spent a few days there, visiting the historic villages of Lucen and Hongchon, and hiked/walked up Huangshan (Yellow Mountain). This marked the first nature type activity or site that I visited during this trip. Whereas, many people center their whole trip around trekking the mountains and seeing nature, mine has been almost the exact opposite, as I have been more fascinated by the people, the culture and how the landscape of the community/cities and the people have and are changing, more than the landscape of the terrain. Of course, knowing that the natural beauty of the world and virgin territory are constantly disappearing, I decided to add some natural sight seeing to my itinerary. Huangshan, was mentioned to me, by a few people I met along the way, while in Beijing and Shanghai, there is supposedly a saying: There are many (hundreds) of mountains in China, but if you see the four sacred/beautiful mountains, than you can skip the rest. But, if you see Huangshan, than you can skip the four sacred mountains as well. By now, you may have had a chance to see the photos on Flickr, and they were right, it was truly amazing. The most captivating thing, was that any moment you would walk along a large cliff and look out into a sea of fog, but if you just stood there and waited a few minutes, the fog would dissipate, and any unimaginable natural beauty would just appear before you. Made me think, how many jaw dropping scenery, I may have walked past because the fog layer was so thick throughout the day. Between those two days, I must have walked close to 30 km, with most of it including steep steps up and down. Needless to say, when I returned back to Tunxi, I washed up and immediately found a foot massage parlor, which cost 50 yuan ($1 USD = 7.5 RMB aka yuan) for an hour, and that was steep for a small city, but it was the cleanest one I could find.

With half a week to go, before the start of National Week, I was on a mission to go see the Terracotta Warriors, before the mass/sea of Chinese tourist hit the streets. So I took the train to Nanjing, a previous capital of China (actually on two separate occasions), with the original intent of a short layover, before switching to a night train to Xi’an. But while en-route, I read about the Nanjing Massacre Memorial Hall, which documented the infamous war crimes of the Japanese-Chinese War, late 1937 – early 1938, in which the Japanese killed as many as 300,000 Chinese (Nanjing citizens) in just a six week period, including the committing of such un-imaginable atrocities, I rather not discuss. I actually have a real weak stomach for this stuff, but felt a personal obligation to learn more, as I never learned much of Asian history growing up, and this incident helped explain the resent that some Chinese still had for the Japanese, and I in some strange way, I feel that it is my duty to understand the three countries/nationalities that I represent: One, I am American, as a person, culture and nationality; Two, I am Chinese, by birth, race and history; and Three, Japanese by name and often mistaken as such, by those that do not know me personally. I am actually very proud to have such a unique situation, and is the reason that I usually use all three initials: RCH, each representing the three nationalities/cultures (R, my American given name; C, my Chinese surname; and of course H).

The last and strongest reason, for my desire to visit the Memorial Hall, even though it is said that the pictures/exhibits could be gruesome and uncomfortable, is that I needed to learn more. As you may recall, I visited Auschwitz while in Poland, which I knew about before arriving: the events, the history, the tragedies, but this would be different, as I knew only what I read from my Lonely Planet, and little that I heard about from years past. Obviously, the two can not be compared, but for some reason I felt a personal obligation to see the Memorial Hall. So, after arriving in Nanjing, I bought a train ticket for late the following night, giving me more than 24 hours in the city. Now you ready for this? After spending the night in Nanjing, walking the city and streets, I got up bright and early for a full day of sightseeing, with a good few hours set aside for the Memorial Hall, to only find out that it was closed for renovation, and was not expected to be re-open until December. First Mao’s tomb in Beijing and now this, well, when in China, roll with the punches. So, I spent sometime that morning reading about the Massacre on the internet, than hit northeastern part of the city for visits to Sun Yatsen’s Mausoleum (he is considered the father of modern China, which was more of a democracy during his time), Linggu Temple, Ming Xiaoling Tomb, and the Botanic Gardens, with a walk along the City Walls along the way (Nanjing is supposedly one the largest wall city ever built, with over 33 km of walls).

After another night on an overnight train, I arrived in Xi’an, also a former capital of China, and home of the Terracotta Warriors. It was now Friday, and probably the last peaceful (all things being relative) before the masses embarked in search of entertainment and sightseeing, so after finding my hostel, I dropped off my bags, washed up, and hit the door for a day of sightseeing. I ended up joining a tour group of 6 others, on a tour of Xi’an: which would include: the Banpo Neolithic Village (believed to date back to 4500 BC), the Terracota Warriors, the Tomb of Qin Shi Huang, and the hot springs. Of course staying true to me and tour groups, I hopped of the tour once we reached the site of the Warriors, as I read the description of the tomb and had no interest in the hot springs, more importantly, one hour would do no justice to take in the grandeur of the Warriors. Many, if not most, people are disappointed by the sight of the Terracotta Warriors, as they expected to something more magical, overwhelming, mystical, not sure what, but I was still impressed, when realizing the purpose, intent and methods as to how this sea of underground warriors and protector’s of Qin’s tomb was created over 2000 years ago. To those disappointed, I say: get over it! There were many surprises that day, in what you saw, one was the grounds, as it is fully developed, with a huge modern hangar covering the largest pit (1) containing approximately 6000 of the warriors with horses, here and there. Than there are two smaller pits (2 and 3) which contain less, and help show the condition of the warriors during excavations. The details and differences between each warrior is amazing, but the most shocking was the hostory. In short, Qin was the first emperor that united all of China, he was quite the interesting guy. He began to rule at the age of 13 and during his 36 year reign, he eventually conquered the whole country and developed a standard measurement system, common currency and writing, and started massive infrastructure projects, including canals, roads and the Great Wall. His history and legacy is not often reflected in a good light, as the writers of the time, disliked him, as he had hundred of their peers buried alive, when they criticised him or wrote against his beliefs. The topper is that he supposed had over 700,000 people (those that labored on the site/project) buried alive, after the completion of the Terracotta Warriors and his tomb, as he did not want the secrets of his tomb known to any. So, to this day, his tomb remains unexcavated, even though there is wide speculation that there are significant amount of treasures still buried below.

After a couple more days in Xi’an with visits to: the Great Mosque, the Muslim Quarter, The Forest of Stalae Museum (which has been a museum for over a 1000 years), light and fountain show at the Big Goose Pagoda, and bike ride on top of the City Walls, I headed for Chengdu, the retreat I selected to ride out National Week.

Chengdu, was a great place to hide out that week, as others there were, basically there for the same reason. Its a large city, fifth largest in China and basically the capital of the Sichuan province, and as a result, had as many people probably leaving it, as there would be arriving. The next four to five days, I just walked around the city, visited some sights and parks, highlighted by a trip to the Panda Research Camp, and a day trip to Leshan to see the World’s Largest Buddha. You can now add that to my list of the superlative tour, since I visited Chengde when in Beijing to see the World’s Largest Guanyin at Punning Temple. The decision at hand, was than if I continue, late in the week, traveling in a counter clockwise direction through China to the Yunnan Province, or go with the masses/lemmings in search of enlightenment and head for Tibet.

Last week, was a tough and trying week for many of my friends, who in many ways are like my extended family. One being with: the fires that has been ravaging out of control through much of Southern California. Now, it has been brought to my attention that many of the great people that I have had an opportunity to work with, has been let go. Unfortunately, it is the nature of the business, but it still does not make it any easier for anybody/everybody. One of those affected, is someone who I have had the pleasure to get to know, as a leader, friend, and as someone that I look up to as a mentor. Just wanted to send a shout out to: JT, and to say that I know, you will turn this negative into a positive, as that is in your nature. And to all my friends back home, I sincerely: Hope all is well, and wishing the best for all of Southern California, from the other side of the world.

Namaste, from Kathmandu, Nepal. Yup, you read right, I am now, way off course and find myself in the oasis of Nepal’s capital for continental cuisine. It’s been over a month since I left Shanghai, and headed west, with goals of seeing the Terracotta Warriors in Xi’an (which I did), then slowing working in a counterclockwise fashion through the Sichuan and Yunnan provinces of China. Where the plan was to enter Southeast Asia through Laos, crossing into Thailand, eventually to Cambodia, then maybe back to China for a visit into the modern world of Hong Kong and Macau, before flying to Taiwan. At least, that was the plan.

Where do I start or begin? So much to tell, and experiences to share. First, I always knew that this leg of the trip would be much different than my first through Europe, but I never really knew how much different. What I expected was that, for me, it would be more personal (historical and reflective), such as my blog entries on Beijing and Shanghai. I also expected a different backpacking community than that of Europe, as the season was now different, and China is not exactly the place you visit for the all-night parties and beerfest. What I discovered was/is, what I expected, but also alot of surprises, as one would expect. The backpacking/traveling community is still very diverse, but generally older and surprisingly, I have met more people from the States, than I did in all of my time in Eastern Europe. Many of the backpacking community have traveled in excess of a year, and sometimes just in one region. The record holder for the most traveled people I have met so far, goes to Mark from Australia, who has been traveling non-stop for 9 years now; and Jennie who has traveled for 38 years, with a 10 year gap in between, to set up camp in British Columbia to raise her only daughter during her influential age of 10 to 20. (If I remember later, I would like to share with you my dinner conversation with Jennie, as I have never met anyone like her and her outlook on life and traveling.) In speaking with this community of travelers (including Jennie), I found that I learned as much about myself, as I did about them. We all travel for different reasons, and as with any experience that we all share, we all have different perspectives, based on our own personal history/background/experiences. What I learned was, at least for the time being, what kind of traveler that I am. There are the nomads, searching for the world of enlightenment; the thrill seekers; the sight-seers/tourist (or as I refer to myself, the lemmings); humanitarians… At this point, I consider myself to be a mixed bag, with an unequal portion of the first three (probably most heavily the third group), but, not in any way shape or form, the later. Than, there are the ex-pats, which can probably be broken down into many additional sub-categories, but which I have only recently started to interact with. But I will digress, for now, as I am now a month behind on the blog, and am leaving tomorrow for a four day trip of: white water rafting and canyoning (repelling/climbing/sliding/jumping).

For a quick change in scenery, I will quickly describe, the day in the life of a backpacker or specifically, me, and how my trip has changed drastically from my time in Europe. In Europe, I was constantly on the move, with a time and place for each city, venue, site, museum, castle… Now in Asia, and with somewhat less of a hard and fast schedule, my day goes like this:

I usually wake up somewhere around 7 am and finally roll out of bed around 8 am, after contemplating what my day will entail. This takes an hour, because the options are unlimited, and may even include packing up and leaving for the next destination, which is a question in itself. But, generally I have a list of sites that I would like to see, so I pick one or two and go from there. At which point, I set out in search of breakfast, which happens to be my favorite meal, but one that I rarely ate, when I was at home. Now this will vary drastically, depending on the options available, for example in the oasis known as Kathmandu, I have dined on eggs, toasts, croissants, sausages, and potatoes (all not as good as home, but it will do), but most of the time, its a yogurt drink and some sort of breakfast bread from the corner store. Usually this meal is eaten on a bench, where I can watch the world go by, a park in China, watching the older generation doing Tai Chi is a favorite, as well as just watching the school kids with their colorful uniform run by. In the larger city, there is usually some mode of public transportation involved, either a bus or subway, but many times its just a long walk to the destination of choice, either: a museum, park, palace/fort/castle, church/temple/mosque/monastery, memorial… Sometimes its with a hostel mate, or friend you met from a previous city, but most of the time its alone, sometimes by choice, other times there are no other options. After visiting/stopping by the venue of choice, the search now continues for the next meal, sometimes this is a mid-afternoon (usually after the noon rush of the working world) snack or a full meal, again dictated by the surrounding environment and its fruitful and tantalising options (keep in mind that I have lost in excess of 16 pounds since the start of my trip). In the late-afternoon, if the sight-seeing does not continue, then its time to find a place to read, meet some people, do some research: on the local area and its sight-seeing options or the same due diligence for the next destination, and the proper mode of transportation. My favorite days, are when I am on, my self-dubbed, “cruise-control.” This is when I have figured out what my next destination is, when I leave, and how I am getting there, so until then, I am on cruise control, and enjoy the ride, often letting the people I meet to set the sight seeing itinerary for the day. The evening, of course in centered around meeting up for a bite, hopefully with some people you recently met, with a lively discussion of each others, travel log, including: country of origin, duration, path already traveled, future destination, and recommendations/favorites. This has provided the most benefit, as you get the opportunity to Q and A about places all around the world, and became envious of the each others experiences. Of course this does not happen every night, as you can only talk about traveling so much, I actually long for a discussion about the world of sports (something other than soccer) or stocks, but than again, I don’t miss the constant Kobe/Lakers drama, which I have kept track by way of the internet. Many nights its may be just me, dinner by candlelight, with my Lonely Planet guidebook or the latest novel in my bag. After dinner, a walk through town is usually a must, and on those special nights, there may be a light or fountain show in the City Square/Centre. And that in a nutshell is an ordinary day, when not highlighted by a visit to some magnificent human or natural marvel. Not sure if, its what you expected, but in general, if I have more than a couple days (sometimes even one) of these, I know it is time to move on.

So that brings me to the here and now. My question of the day is: quick run through India to see the Taj, or hop on a plane for Bangkok to get back on course. Both includes its list of pros and cons, and has been an internal debate for the last few days. I would appreciate any insight, but here is my internal arguments:

Pro – go to India, originally my plan, was that by the end of this trip, I would have seen all of the Seven Wonders of the World (Reky’s list as opposed to the questionable “New 7 Wonders”: Pyramids, Great Wall, Colosso, Petra, Angkor Wat, Machu Picchu, and Taj Mahal), except for the Taj. Especially, since I am so close.

Con – (1) running behind schedule, (2) a huge part of me is scared of India, I am not ready to see the way the caste system operates, the suffering, hunger, poverty, the kids on the streets… and (3) the same reason I left out Croatia and Greece while in Europe. I expect to continue to travel the rest of my life, and want to save many special and unique places, to experience those places for the first time with, you know, that someone special or at least later in life. I still remember, last year when I went to Italy, and was walking from Rio Maggiore in Cinque Terra to Manarola, it just didn’t feel right, it was too special and unique and should be something that I saved for sometime later in life, when I could fully appreciate it. It still is one of the places that I want to go back and visit in the future, and am glad that I did not visit all five towns of Cinque Terra, so that I can save that first time feeling when I finally do return. Man! I am really starting to get soft, I need to man up! And plus, if I finish off that list, it just feels rushed.

So, for the purposes of entertaining me, feel free to cast your vote.

By the way, my path of travel from Shanghai to Kathmandu, was, with some details possibly to follow:

Shanghai – Huangshan/Tunxi – Nanjing – Xi’an – Chengdu – Lhasa (Tibet) – Gyantse – Shigatse – Shegar – Everest Base Camp/Rongphu Monastery – Zhangmu – Kathmandu.

Hope all is well.

Shanghai, the self proclaimed “Paris of the East,” does not rank high on the list for backpackers, as it is a bustling metropolis, filled with enough high priced restaurants and hotels to compete against any city, back home, in The States. Additionally, Shanghai was one of the cities I visited six years ago, on my previous trip to China, so I debated on leaving it out of this itinerary. Ultimately, the decision to visit Shanghai, was not based on the skyscrapered skyline of the Pudong area, a stroll down the Bund, or a visit to the historic French Quarter, but rather it was an opportunity to spend sometime with my family and to hopefully get some personal history.

Purely coincidental, my mom’s: brothers (2), sisters (2) and mother (my grandmother), along with my sister, cousin, and a couple of aunts, were touring through China, the same month that I would be there. I decided to schedule my visit to Shanghai, at the end of their tour, so that I could spend a few days with the fam and get some information about our family’s past. For some reason, not sure if its Asian cultural thing or not, they never really talked about the past. Sure they talked about the tough times, and how they had to walk to school about 10km, in the monsoon, with no jacket, and up hills both ways, but I never heard the stories of how their life was before Taiwan.

I knew that my mom and most of her siblings were born in China, specifically Shanghai, and that they immigrated, or rather escaped to Taiwan, when the Communist Party took power in 1949, but details beyond that was never discussed. During the past couple years, when my grandmother visited the States, I would try to probe and ask about our family’s past, where did she grow up, what was life like back then, what did my great grandmother/grandfather do, who were my great great grandparents… When I intially asked these questions, a couple years ago, my grandmother, would give me a funny look, and just pretend that my Chinese was incomprehensible and that the language barrier would be to great to hold a conversation with me. But as I continued to ask, each and everytime she visited, she finally started to break down and give me some of our families past. So, now with basically my mom’s whole family there in one spot, along with my grandmother, in the place that it basically all started, and hoping that they would feel nostalgic, it was my chance of a lifetime to get the history of where I came from.

Quick sidenote, its interesting how things all come together, even before this trip I was interested in my family’s history, but while traveling through Europe it really emphasized the importance of personal history, as least for me. Everywhere from Russia to Germany, Belgrade to Turkey, Poland to Egypt, understanding history from places to buildings to culture to people, explains their similarities and differences. It is what helps make each place unique and special, to understand the tragedies and its glories, is not to only mourn and celebrate the past, but rather more important to learn from it, and often helps explain the culture/habits/thinking of the local area. But to bring it closer to home, it is that we all seem to know the history/past of the famous/infamous, the rich, the heros, the villans, but what about ourselves? There are walking tours in Berlin and Munich that discusses the life of Hitler, with explaination of timelines of the Third Reich, and hypothesis on what may have happened if he was accepted into art school at Vienna, and even how his dog was posioned. In Egypt, you learn about all the Phoarahs from thousands of years ago. But how far back, can you tell me about your family’s history: what was their name, what did they do for a living, where did they live, grow up or born, how many siblings did they have, what were their hobbies… It constantly amazed me that we had such good accounts of particular people, but knew so little about oursleves. Maybe its just a selfish desire to establish a legacy, but I feel bad that I don’t know more about my ancestors, and it makes me think that in just less than a couple generations after my own death, my grandkids would never know about me and where they came from, as they will likely be on the otherside of the world from where their their great great grandmother (my mom) was born. So with that I bought my overnight train ticket to Shanghai, on a mission to find out about my family’s past.

The following, is really written much more for me, and probably in hopes for my kids and their kids, so I hope you don’t find it too boring.

Intially when I started the inquisition into the family’s past, my grandmother would play along, but be brief with her answers. Then my uncle got fustrated and asked why I was probing, I think in defense of my grandmother, at which I explained the reason for my curiosity, and since we never heard it from them, I had to skip to the source. What I found out amazed me: the reason that many of my uncles and aunts never told us about our ancestors, was that they did not know all the facts, themselves. Again, not sure if its a cultural thing or just our family, but they really didn’t ask to many questions, and after leaving China, they only looked straight ahead. It turns out, that my great great grandfather was a local doctor in a town somewhere in central China. He had a couple kids, one of which was my great grandfather, which in my great great grand dad’s eyes was destined to be a doctor, but my great grandfather did not agree. The story goes: my great grandfather was a smart guy, and was approached by one of his close friends to take the military entrance exam on his friend’s behalf, for this he would pay him a fee, as if you scored high, it determined your rank and position in the military. My grandfather with nothing to lose, agreed and studied for the test. When he was ready to take the test, he notified his friend, that he changed his mind and would put his own name on the test, instead of his friend’s. During this time, my great grandfather told his dad, that he had no interest in becoming a doctor, and immediately left home, before he would be kicked out anyways. The interesting things, was that he was married, and as with the culture at that time, his wife stayed at the in-laws (his parent’s house), since the marriage was arranged between the parents and not with the kids.

When the test score came back it was sent to his father’s house, at which time my great great grandfather saw how well his son placed, and immediately accepted him back into the family. My great grandfather, was now in the military as a high ranking officer of the Kuomintang (KMT) aka the Chinese Nationalist Party, under the leadership of Chiang Kai-shek. At the time of the 1949 defeat by the Communist Party, my great grandfather was the head of purchasing for KMT, and called in some favors to evacuate his family immediately on-board a cargo ship bound for Taiwan. The trade off was that he and his family was to leave their comfortable life behind, gone were their personal servants (at this point, I looked at my mom, aunts and uncles, and reminded them the stories of the humble beginnnings), and even a personal driver, but if they stayed, death was eminent. When they arrived at Taiwan, they started a new life, my great grandfather still had connections, and used them to establish the best he could for my great grandmother (his second wife, as his first passed, as he started his military campaign), and his family, including my grandmother who at the time was 28, married with four kids, and one on the way. From this point, my aunts started filling in some of the blanks, as they were now as excited and possibly more excited than me to talk about our family’s history. It took me a few days and nights to get the history of my ancestors, but the pay off was soon to follow, first was when one of my aunts, personally thanked me for inquirying, as she said that she never even knew any of what we just had learned, and was shocked that my grandmother had opened up as she did. So with that, I got some more info about my great grandparents, about how they met, their childhood, their life back in China, and wrote down some notes to find out more when I reach Taiwan, and have some one on one time with my grandmother and aunt.

The surprise, came when the tables cleared, and the family history discussion basically wrapped up. My mom, was surprised by line of questioning, but I think happy, and asked me how much I really knew and remembered of early childhood. This has been something that has been rarely discussed, but we all knew that we remembered it vividly. Most of you all know, but in case you don’t, the reason I have a Japanese last name of Hiramoto, is because I was adopted by my dad/father, technically my stepfather, who was of Japanese decent, born and raised in Hawaii. So when I say dad or father, I am referring to the man who raised, taught, and influenced me, and not the biological. My mom and dad, married in an awkward fashion, as they agreed to marry even before they had ever met. At that time, we were still in Taiwan, with the biological, who by the way was not the nicest man. My eldest uncle at this time, was already in the States and working at a manufacturing plant with my soon to be dad. My other uncle brought news to the States that their sister (my mom) had a terrible situation back home and really needed to get away, so my eldest uncle approached his friend with the proposition of a free round trip ticket to Taiwan, and alittle cash, if he could marry his sister, so that she could escape to the New World. This much of the story, I knew, and remembered. I still recall, the first time I met my dad, and was told to call him: “Uncle Joe”, I remembered being excited to move to the otherside of the world from the biological, I remember the flight to the different and new world, I still remember arriving that first night, and not understanding all the noise and words that surrounded me. What I didn’t know was that I was not part of the plan.

Apparently, when the pact was made, it was agreed by all parties, including the biological (since they were seperating) that my mom would bring one of her two kids. It appeared that everyone basically assumed that the one that would go to the States would be the second (me), as with Chinese culture, and as the case with the biological, that the first born especially a son, was special and revered. As my brother was much more favored by the biological, everyone just assumed that he would want the oldest son to stay behind with him, and have the younger one go. But to the surprise of my mother, he said that he wanted her to take the oldest son, so that he could have more oppurtunities in the New World. But, unknown to him the reason for the escape, was not only for her to get away from him, but just as important was to get the second son, me, away from him, as well. This of course caused quite the predictament. So, when my mom and dad, finally met for the first time, and with very little common words between them (he with only English and her with Chinese), she was some how able to communicate to him, the problem with leaving the second son behind, and the questionable future that laid ahead if he stayed with the biological. That is when, this man, this stranger, became my dad, my father. He said, its an easy solution, we just take the both of them. And that his how my life completely changed, and I came to the States. So when I use the words: dad and father to differentiate with biological, it not ill feelings or bitterness towards the man with whom I share DNA, but rather a show of respect and admiration for a man who took on the responsibility of being a parent, raising a child to someone who I hope he would be proud to call a man, today.

So to him, I say, and hope he can hear me from above: Thanks, Dad.