Much like a championship fight, the date was marked, and heavily anticipated. The date: May 4th. Because of this date, I moved back into a hostel, when my lease ran out, instead of hitting the road. Namely, because of two reasons: one, just a few weeks prior, it was finally confirmed that the futbol/soccer team Boca Junior would face off against River Plate in the game known as the Super Classico. Having not attended a futbol match to-date, I had said that if the Super Classico was happening anytime close to my stay in Buenos Aires, I was going to attend, period! And two, a friend, a previous co-worker, Ricardo was coming to Argentina with his wife, brother, sister-in-law and parents, to visit family, attend a wedding, and sightseeing up and down the country. During our e-mail exchange, to coordinate a time and place to meet, he casually invited me to attend his cousin’s wedding along with his family, to which, I responded: Heck, yes!
During the preceding weeks, I put the word out to many friends, I met throughout the city, that: I wanted, I needed, I had to get a ticket to the match. With less than a week before the Classico, it was almost assured that I had at least one if not two tickets in hand. My previous roommate, a River Plate fan, said he had connections, and he was sure that he could get tickets. Than another fellow lemming, said that she had a connection, somebody who knew somebody, from the Boca camp that could also get tickets. With less than a couple days left, and my ex-roommate yet to deliver, I put more energy on the other ticket source, and she assured me that it was very feasible, and since I wanted to sit on the Boca side, I stop pushing for the River tickets. Than the day before the match, I received a text message saying that they were on their way to pick up the Boca tickets, and that I could pick it up, later that same day. Just a few hours later, my ex-roommate contacted me, telling me that his contact came through, and wanted to know how many tickets I wanted. Since it was, almost guaranteed that I was getting the Boca tickets, I thanked him and passed on the River tickets. Later that night, I get the dreaded text, telling me that the Boca tickets were counterfeit, but luckily they noticed before they paid, and now group I was going with, was going to watch the match at a bar. And, of course, it was too late to contact my ex-roommate, as he already got his tickets.
Than there was the question, of what I would wear to the wedding, as there was no article of clothing, not even a pair of socks that would be appropriate, for such an event. I received confirmation, that it was okay for me to semi-crash the wedding reception, just two days before the ceremony. The plan was to find a suit rental place, and call it good. But, when I finally found a suit rental shop, they wanted 650 pesos for a day´s rental, steep even by western standards. Walking up and down the 2500 block of Correintas, I was able to find some other suit rental shops charging 200 pesos without shoes, but they were suits that I seriously would not be caught dead in. This caused quite the predicament, but luckily my roommate Stella, offered to accompany me to view the suits and give me a second opinion. When I initially described the situation, she told me that I was being too picky, and it was only for one day, so I should just rent the cheap suit, and be done with it. When she arrived at the shop, she took one look, and nodded no, and it was off to the back up plan. For the next few hours, we walked up and down the blocks of Corrientas and Florida, and by night fall, I was the proud new owner of attire fit for a wedding or a business meeting, minus the jacket, from tie to socks, and even a new belt.
May 4th. Starting at the stroke of midnight, the first half of the day, was rough, and it was clear that I lost most of those early rounds. The day, started with the first of many emotional goodbyes. Having made connections with many people, during my stay in Buenos Aires, unlike anywhere else on my trip, it was strange/tough to say goodbye to some of those you connected with, but couldn’t end it with, saying: see you later.
Early in the morning, I met up with Ricardo and his family. That part of the morning was great, as it was good to see a familiar face, and hear stories from home. His family welcomed me with open arms, and were intrigued by the path of my travels. But, his dad was most envious, as he heard from Ricardo that I had tickets for the Classico, later that day. He told me that the Classico was it, the pinnacle of matches, and if he was me, he would forget about the wedding, as it was an easy choice to make. At this point, I was unsure if I had been uninvited to the wedding, and didn’t have the heart to tell him that I was now without tickets. So, I told them, that I would love to do both, and that my ticket may be falling through, so I still wanted to get the address and time of the wedding. To which, they responded, that I was welcomed to wedding, but to come as late as I needed to, as the game would be something I would remember for a long time.
As I left them, headed back to my hostel, I put the backup plans into effect, a call to the hostel for ticket brokers, no luck; searched the internet classified ads, no luck; walked the streets, looking for something random, no luck. When, I got back to the hostel, the place was empty, everybody had either went to the game or a bar to watch the match. I sat there soaking for about five minutes, when a guy walked in and asked what I was doing for the game, and I responded: I am going to stadium, want to go?
The two of us, hopped in a taxi, and got dropped off at the parking lot of the stadium. For the next two hours we walked around the stadium trying to look like gringos, so that the ticket scalpers would approach us. One after another they approached with tickets of varying counterfeit quality, some made valiant attempts to look real, while others looked obviously fake. The asking price varied from 150 pesos to 700 pesos. The problem was that we had no idea what the real tickets looked like, and was told that they varied in color and design based on the locations of your seat. Eventually, I devised a plan to hangout at one of the entrances, identify a gringo and ask to see his/her tickets. Of course this was met, with weird stares, as if I was some crazy thief, ready to rob them. Finally I met a locale couple who were escorting some of their gringo friends into the stadium. Their friends ignored my request, but after they entered, the couple described their tickets to me, including the colors, and to look for a hologram, along with a specific logo. About ready to give up, we just stood around, content to do a little people watching. That is when I ran into four English guys, who spoke almost no Spanish and looked lost as they were trying to speak to a guy regarding tickets. I asked them what was going on, and they explained that they think the guy is offering some tickets, so I started to ask the guy to see the tickets, how much, and how many had. At this point there were six of us, and he said that he could get us all in and more. A bit skeptical, I said let me see the tickets, and he responded that he didn’t have tickets, but had connections at the gate, and that we didn’t have to pay until we were physically inside. Of course this peaked our interest and we waited for him to explain how. That’s when the police escorted the team buses of each team right pass us. The team bus for Boca Juniors was first, and with the curtains wide open, the players looked out the windows and some waved at the cheering and howling fans below. When the River Plate bus passed by, it was as if someone was giving birth in the bus, as the police caravan and bus flew by, not slowing down the least bit, as the people booed and motioned as if to throw things at the bus. The curtains of the bus were drawn closed, and the bus would never even think to slow down if it hit anything or anybody, on it’s way to the stadium.
When the chaos of the bus passed, the fellow, pulled us into the corner market owned by his grandmother, and showed us five tickets, matching the rough description, that I had been told. But, now his story changed, as he asked for 300 pesos a piece, upfront. Additionally, our crowd had grown to ten, and he said that he needed time to get the additional tickets, and could not accompany us, until he procured the remaining tickets. Figuring that this was our last opportunity to get in, we choose to roll the dice, buy the tickets, and cross our fingers, that if they were fake, that they were good enough to get us in. Two of us, said that we would try first, and if we couldn’t get in, we would run back and try to save the others from throwing away their money. As waited in line to enter, we had to go through at least five check points, and at a couple of them, they examined my ticket closely, more than once. After 45 minutes, and circling at least a quarter of the stadium, I was at the turnstile, and the guy examined my ticket, front and back, and gave it a good rub to feel the paper stock, before ripping my ticket in half… and handing me half of it back, I was in!
Reminiscent of the Sambadrome, the energy inside the stadium was electric, putting the enthusiasm of the crowds, at sporting events, from home to shame. As I walked up the stairs in the tunnel, you could feel the ground, the walls, and the roof, literally vibrating. Flags of blue and yellow (Boca’s colors) were handed sporadically to the crowd. Mike and I each grabbed a flag, and as we re-entered daylight the vibration from the cheering/screaming crowd almost gave me goosebumps. As I waved my flag, I was directed by many to a particular part of the stadium, while many others pointed and screamed at me: “Chino!” (Chinese) and gave me a thumbs up signalling their approval. When I finally stopped at my place to watch the match, I ended up at the second level at the far end of the Boca Popular stands, home to some of the rowdiest fans in all of futbol. I had been previously warned of all the dangers that comes with sitting/standing in this part of the stadium. But, at least on this day, it couldn’t be further from the truth. As I was one of the only gringos around, and clearly standing out, the locales were excited by my presence, and constantly grabbed my hand or arm, and shook it with theirs high in the air, as they sang to the beating of the drums behind us. Over the course of the next couple hours, the dancing, singing and cheering was non-stop, almost regardless of what was happening on the field, other than the fact that eggs and small rolls of paper were handed out, for us to pelt at the goalie for River Plate. Beat after beat, song after song, the crowd chanted, sang and jumped in unison. Funny enough, when play stopped for halftime, the crowd in synchronized fashion, all stopped and sat down, as if to conserve their energy for the second half. In the end, Boca won the match, and when they scored during the first half, I was literally pushed along with everybody else, forward and down a few steps in a feeble attempt to get closer to the field, luckily for me, it was the only goal of the match, as I am not sure I could survive another hard push towards the wall, and not sure what would happen if River ever scored.
When the match ended, the River section was let out first, giving them time to escape. Next was the executive seat sections, followed by the other seated and enclosed section of the Boca fans. Finally, after an hour since the game had finished, the Boca Popular section was released into the streets to celebrate the victory, and bragging rights.
I quickly, returned back to the hostel, showered, changed, and put on my first tie, since almost a year ago. Next, I hopped in a cab to Retiro station for the Metire train, for the 25 minute ride to attend the wedding reception. Ricardo’s uncle Rual was kind enough to offer to pick me up at the train station, and when he showed up with a minivan full of people, I was shocked by their hospitality, as they saved me the front passenger seat, and he made his full grown sons, much taller than me, sit family dog style in the back trunk.
At the wedding reception, I sat with Ricardo, his wife, brother, sister-in-law, and a few of his cousins. When the father of the bride stopped by, to thank everybody for their attendance, he gave me an awkward stare, as to say who are you, and Ricardo immediately jumped up and explained who I was, and not some loony that was trying to mimic scenes from the Wedding Crashers. As the reception continued on, and I was introduce to various family members, I suddenly, according to Ricardo became a mini-celebrity. First, I was approached by a lady, who asked who I was, why I was here, and how long I was staying in Buenos Aires. Than she introduced me to her husband, and when he found out that I had just come from the Super Classico, and that I had pictures to show everybody, he literally, dragged me from table to table, to show the pictures off. Before he let me return to my table, his wife asked me if I was single, and when I said yes, he dragged me around and introduced me to many of the single girls at the reception. Feeling a bit awkward by the attention, especially since I was semi-crashing the wedding, I returned to the table, in an attempt to blend back in, when all of the sudden the MC rambled off a bunch of Spanish words, followed by the word: Chino, and the whole crowd turned to face me. At this point, I was talking with Ricardo, and we both noticed that now everybody was looking right at us. My buddy, the gentlemen that led me around, now came to my table, grabbed me by the hand, and led me straight to the center of the dance floor to speak with the MC. Ricardo’s mom, met me up there, to help translate, the questions the MC wanted to ask me. Turns out, he was joking around, and was picking people out of the crowd, and saying that they were movie stars. Of course, when he asked where I was from, and I replied United States, specifically Southern California, this played right into his hands. For the rest of the night, I would be remembered as Jackie Chan, strange but I remember when Bruce Lee was the most famous Asian movie star.
Not to be outdone, our table included another semi-celebrity, as my buddy Ricardo sang a self composed tune dedicated to the newlyweds. Shortly before I left, he had joined a garage band, which I jokingly teased him about. Now he is the lead singer of a more formal rock band, who has previously recorded tracks, and do regular gigs throughout Southern California.
As the night ended, and the family members gathered to take pictures to memorialize the night and occasion. I was deeply flattered and humbled, when some of the cousins started to yell at me, so that I would join their picture. Initially, I declined, as it was a family thing, but they responded that I was now part of the family, and the rest chanted in, so I hopped in. Thanks, Ricardo, Mr & Mrs Graf, and Uncle Rual, for letting me join your family, and for making this truly a Knockout day, and one that I will remember for the rest of my life.